Your Inner Child Needs To Feel Safe and Happy

20 May

Child enjoying life feeling safe and loved

Your Inner Child is with you for life, and she has to feel safe and loved. Asking your inner child what you need for her to feel safe and loved, will change your life.

But the trauma you may have experienced as a child, and no, not necessarily physical trauma. It can and often is emotional or mental trauma, leaving your Inner child unhappy and insecure, unable to engage in a life of joy and happiness.

Your stories

As a child, you will have used your imagination to create stories around events, such as being left to cry for a while or not being picked up when you did cry.

We expect our parents to love us unconditionally. Therefore, imagine how you would have felt as a baby if you cried and were left to cry. You would have been scared, confused, even fearful, or feeling abandoned. This doesn't mean they didn't love you, but you would have chosen to give meaning to the experience, reinforced each time you didn't receive the immediate response you were expecting.

Unloved, not enough, unworthy

Feeling abandoned and unsafe

Consequently, you formed beliefs like being unlovable, not enough or unworthy because you felt abandoned and unsafe, which became the point of reference when you were ignored or unappreciated. Just like a computer programme, it remains in place until you change or delete the programme.

Although you have grown up, your unconscious mind still holds those beliefs. Your belief triggers your thoughts, no matter how often you self-talk, that you are safe and everything is okay. You don't believe that is the case in your body and mind, resulting in confusion and lack of trust.

The Law of Attraction and Vibrational Energy

Unfortunately, the Law of Attraction works on the basis that energetically, like attracts like, so if you don't believe in yourself and your abilities, you will attract the same, as your energy is a lower frequency than that of someone who loves themselves.

If you want a beautiful, loving relationship, you need to believe you are lovable; otherwise, you will find a partner who doesn't treat you with love and respect. They may be verbally or physically abusive, criticising and judging you, just as you judge and abuse yourself through self-talk.

Although you may want to improve your life, you can only start making changes when you decide enough is enough. Your inner child finally gets your attention and tells you she doesn't want to feel scared and alone continually.

Stop lying to yourself - Be You!

Your inner Child, your Soul, knows you are capable of much more. But because of your untrue beliefs, you have continued to lie to yourself that all is well instead of being YOU!

Is it time to connect to your inner child and let her speak up so you can step beyond the past into a joyful and playful present?

You gain many benefits from working to make your inner child feel safe and secure, not abandoned or unloved.

To connect to your Inner Child, download the Inner Child meditation. This meditation will allow you to be open to receiving the wonders of life that are yours to receive.