Did you know your beliefs and behaviours are from your relationships with parents, grandparents, family members, peers, teachers, and family friends? They are also from what you see and hear on the TV and in society as you grew up.
You also carry the energy of past lives and ancestral history within your genes, positively and negatively contributing to your beliefs and behaviours.
However, you can transform your life rapidly! As a coach and mentor for women who have experienced trauma and abuse as a child or in an adult relationship, I have helped hundreds achieve a happy, fulfilled life without their past affecting how they live.
I choose to speak about and work with abuse and trauma because I have experienced both in two intimate relationships and my ‘normal’ childhood.
Childhood relationships
As a child, you are born wanting nothing more than to be loved by your parents or caregivers. To be nurtured, guided and supported as you grow. If you are reading this, it means you were not nurtured, loved and supported by your parents.
But, your parents are not the only ones who traumatize and abuse you. Unknowingly you may have been traumatized as a child.
To clarify trauma, it is feeling,
- frightened
- under threat
- humiliated
- rejected
- abandoned
- invalidated
- unsafe
- unsupported
- trapped
- ashamed
- powerless
Trauma can and does affect all areas of your life, from your relationships, your health, wealth, career and happiness. It remains within your body all your life, as the emotions and memories from each event. Regretfully you may be unaware you have been traumatized just like I didn’t until I realized I was carrying the belief I am not lovable, despite receiving what most would say was a normal childhood. Unfortunately, my parents did not know how to love me or show me affection by hugging me. Consequently, I choose to believe my parents did not love me.
Do you feel unloved, not good enough, has life been one disappointment after another, or have you felt ignored and alone, that no one is listening to you? The I invite you to book a complimentary call to explore how I can help you manifest your dream life.