Divorce is a highly traumatic experience, one of that shakes you to your core! It impacts who you are in so many ways, including your health, wealth and emotional stability.
I know as I have been through my own painful and costly divorce. I felt as if I was on a roller coaster ride of emotions, especially when I had to change my job so my ex couldn’t claim maintenance from me.
I was angry, frustrated with my mind in turmoil, constantly reviewing what if…? My life was on hold throughout the divorce controlling my every thought and action.
I learned that it is important to be focused on the end result of living a happy and fulfilled life going through the divorce!
Divorce is often about money unfortunately, especially overspending or the way the money is spent, causing massive conflict in a relationship.
I have observed that there are 9 money personalities with their own individual behaviours. Which you may find of interest as it makes it easier to understand why you have conflict. It may even enable you to reach a compromise or agreement which will allow a relationship to remain intact.
It doesn’t matter how long you have been married, you will have created emotional reactions to every situation you have experienced with your partner and consequently those reactions have become habits, which remain long after your divorce unless you change them.
The financial reality of divorce
70% of women find they experience poverty after divorce or the death of their partner.
You don’t want to be one of the 70%, therefore your future financial wellbeing relies on you being aware and understanding what you can hope to achieve in a settlement.
Which is where Money Mindset Coaching comes in, it gives you clarity, peace of mind and insights into what is best for you, and enables you to remain calm and focused even more so when you are at the beginning of the divorce process.
You may find yourself being pressurised or threatened in some way to agree to an unfavourable settlement so you need to be strong enough to stand up for what you want as giving in will affect whether you are financially stable or struggle.
But it goes beyond working with your money mindset…
it also explores what you believe about you and how your beliefs impact your financial, physical, emotional and spiritual wellbeing.
The outcome you deserve
- Do you want to achieve the best outcome possible?
- To be free of the stress and worry divorce causes?
- To have a plan of action?
- Do you want to be confident to stand up and say I want – and be comfortable compromising – not giving in?
- Do you want to be confident speaking about financial matters, and understanding what you need?
I am a Mindset Expert on the Alternative Divorce Directory
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